Sex and Happiness

I am going to be very open here...Nathan and I had a lot of sex on Sunday and wow, what a difference does it make to Monday at work! We were definitely wayyyyyy to happy to start the week.

I am sure there are a lot of research out there on the correlation between sex and happiness. It is scientifically proven that sex can greatly improve health and mental state of mind. We have slogans in the 60s and 70s like "make love, not war" as a message for peace. So my theory has always been that when people seem bitchy, moody, or being a downright jerk, I think they just haven't gotten laid for a while. Sex seems to be a therapy to happiness.

Ideally, I think one should consider having sex at least once or twice a week to maintain a balance of mental stableness. Sex brings blood flow to the brain so that increases mental sharpness and endorphines. However, I want to note that it doesn't really do any good by just doing it. Tender, loving, exciting, hell-breaking, wild, earth-shattering sex will have better chances of achieving the benefits. Of course, orgasm is the ultimate goal and if you cannot achieve that during intercourse, it is like a game without ever scoring. Basically, pretty boring and pointless.

What I am trying to say today is that I think sex should weigh as important as our physical health, education, career. It's such a taboo to talk about sex and talk about sex in a way that is technical. To those that are not good at the act, they may not be aware at all that they suck at it or they do know but have no idea where to look for help. It is far too sad and unfortunate that some women have never experienced an orgasm or even think sex is good. Sex just seems to be too natural and innate for human beings to overlook.